I have been searching for this answer for awhile. I've read numerous texts and even watched some lectures online, but often times this is never explained and just given. The viscous stress term in the Navier-Stokes equations looks like
\begin{equation} \nabla \cdot \tau = \nabla \cdot \mu \left(\nabla\vec{u} + (\nabla\vec{u})^T\right) \end{equation}
Now the term $\nabla \cdot \mu \nabla\vec{u}$ is easy enough to understand as it is just velocity diffusion, but I have a hard time coming up with a physical interpretation of the term $\nabla \cdot \mu (\nabla\vec{u})^T$. After I expanded this term I ended up with
\begin{equation} \nabla \cdot \mu (\nabla\vec{u})^T = \begin{pmatrix} \frac{\partial}{\partial x} \nabla \cdot \vec{u} \\ \frac{\partial}{\partial y} \nabla \cdot \vec{u} \\ \frac{\partial}{\partial z} \nabla \cdot \vec{u} \end{pmatrix} \end{equation}
which seems to imply that this effect is not present in a divergence-free velocity field, but I still can't come up with or find any physical intuition about what this term actually means. Does anyone understand what this term physically represents?